Jolly Bethel Cemetery
Surnames N - P
SSW = Shares Stone With
| Name | Born | Died | Research Notes & Inscriptions | Researcher or Resource |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| NOKES, Janet Lynn | Feb. 3, 1951 Neosho, Newton Co., MO |
Jan. 2, 2017 Branson, MO |
Research Note: She was the daughter of Jim and Helen (Rowe) Kelly. Mrs. Nokes was a caregiver in the Joplin area. | Lakin Funeral Home Phyllis Long |
| OXENDINE, Ames/Amos | Sept. 19, 1900 Knoxville, Knox Co., TN |
Jan. 2, 1945 MO State Sana., Mt. Vernon, Lawrence Co., MO |
Research Note: His death certificate reads that his father was Jerry Anderson Oxendine, born TN, and his mother's name was Laura Crawford, born in TN. His wife was listed as Roxie (Jones) Oxendine. He was age 44 years, 3 months and 14 days old when he died. The cause of death was pulmonary tuberculosis, another condition was listed as silicosis. The record clerk at the hospital was the informant. Roxie is buried at Bethel Jolly Cemetery under Roxie Benbrook. She second married Robert Benbrook. | Death Certificate Donna Cooper Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| OXENDINE, William Harlan | Sept. 11, 1925 Newton Co., MO |
May 16, 1939 Newton Co., MO |
Research Note: His death certificate reads that his father was Amos Oxendine, born TN, and his mother was Roxie Jones, born Newton Co., MO. The cause of death was accidental drowning. Burial was in Bethel Cemetery, May 18, 1939. Amos Oxendine, Pierce City, MO, was the informant. | Death Certificate Donna Cooper Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PARMLEY, John G. | Nov. 6, 1874 | Feb. 29, 1944 | Inscription: "In God We Trust" - Research Note: Son of William H. Parmley and Louisa Bridges. - 1910 Census, Twp. 7, Craig, Oklahoma - John Parmley, head, age 34, married for 3 months, born IL; Maude, wife, age 30, married twice, married 3 months in present marriage, mother of 3 children, 3 living (children are not with them), born KS; Louisa, mother, age 66, widowed, mother of 8 children, 7 living, born IL; George, brother age 31, born IL, single. 1940 Census, Locust Grove, Mayes, Oklahoma - John G. Parmley, age 65, born IL; Maude E., wife, age 59, born KS. - Another Photo | Census Phyllis Long Photos Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PARMLEY, Maude E. | Apr. 7, 1880 | May 22, 1954 | Inscription: "In God We Trust" - Research Note: Wife of John G. Parmley. | Note Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PARMLEY, Oscar E. | Aug. 16, 1872 Johnson Co., IL |
Aug. 7, 1941 Rural Newton Co., MO |
Research Note: RR section laborer. Son of John Parmley and Susan Woods born Verona, MO. Anna Parmley, his wife, was the informant on the death certificate. Oscar E. Parmley, age 23, married Mary Anna Cameron, age 20, on Nov. 10, 1895 in Butterfield, Barry Co., MO. | Death Certificate MO Marriage Records Phyllis Long |
| PARMLEY, Susan H. (WOODS) | July 14, 1843 Verona, Lawrence Co., MO |
Mar. 24, 1881 MO |
Research Note: This stone is broken into and part of it is on the ground. It needs to be replaced. Daughter of Reuben Woods and Elizabeth "Betsey" Crane. Susan Woods married Benjamin F. Bridges on Aug. 4, 1859, at the house of Reuben Woods in Lawrence Co., MO by John E. Thomas, minister. Susan H. Bridges married John R. Parmley on July 22, 1866 in Lawrence Co., MO. Rev. John Reed Parmley is buried at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery with his second wife, Persiller Eads. - Another Photo - Bottom of the Stone | Census MO Marriage Records Phyllis Long Photos Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PARMLEY, Thomas Benton | Oct. 8, 1882 | Nov. 27, 1976 | Research Note: Son of William H. Parmley and Louisa Bridges. - 1900 Census, Newtonia, Newton, Missouri - William H. Parmley, head, age 55, born IL, married 33 years, father born IL, mother KY, farmer; Louisa, wife, married 33 years, born IL, mother of 8 children, 7 living, father born KY, mother PA; John G., son, born Nov. 1874 IL, age 25, single; Thomas B., son, born Oct. 1882 MO, age 17, single. - T. B. Parmley married Miss Nellie Henry on Aug. 10, 1903 in Newton Co., MO. W. H. Parmley and Alma Henry were witnesses to the marriage. SSDI gives Nellie's death as Mar. 1964 in MO. T. B. Parmley, age 63, of Neosho, Newton Co., MO, married Drusilla Meritt age 54, of Locust Grove, Mayes Co., OK, on Feb. 12, 1946 in Washington Co., AR. SSDI gives Thomas' last residence as Locust Grove, Mayes Co., OK. Nellie is buried at Clear Creek Cemetery, Newton Co., MO. | Census SSDI Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PARMLEY, William H. | Oct. 11, 1848 IL |
June 21, 1906 MO |
Research Note: This stone is broken off its base and is flat on the ground. Civil War Veteran. William Parmley married Louisa Bridges on Apr. 29, 1866 in Lawrence Co., MO. William H. Parmley, invalid, filed for his Civil War pension on Mar. 9, 1886 from MO. He served in K Co., 15th MO Cav. Louisa Parmley filed for his widow's pension on Aug. 27, 1906 from MO. She was the daughter of Henry and Eveline (Slankard) Bridges. - 1880 Census, Newtonia, Newton, Missouri - W. H. Parmley, age 34, born IL; Louisa, age 38, wife, born IL; Sarah, age 12, daughter, born MO; Addie, age 10, daughter, born IL; Susan, age 7, daughter, born IL; John G., age 5 son, born IL; George, age 3, son, born IL; William E., age 11 months, born IL. - 1900 Census, Newtonia, Newton, Missouri - William H. Parmley, head, age 55, born IL, married 33 years, father born IL, mother KY, farmer; Louisa, wife, married 33 years, born IL, mother of 8 children, 7 living, father born KY, mother PA; John G., son, born Nov. 1874 IL, age 25, single; Thomas B., son, born Oct. 1882 MO, age 17, single. - William has died - 1910 Census, Twp. 7, Craig, Oklahoma - John Parmley, head, age 34, married for 3 months, born IL; Maude, wife, age 30, married twice, married 3 months in present marriage, mother of 3 children, 3 living (children are not with them), born KS; Louisa, mother, age 66, widowed, mother of 8 children, 7 living, born IL; George, brother age 31, born IL, single. - Louisa is probably buried in OK. | MO Marriage Records Civil War Pensions Census Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PITTMAN, John T. | Nov. 14, 1848 TN |
Feb. 3, 1910 MO |
Research Note: Husband of Melissa. Son of Daniel and Clarissa Pittman. - 1900 Census, Capps Creek, Barry, Missouri - John T. Pittman, head, born Nov. 1848 TN, age 51, married 17 years, parents born TN, landlord; Melissa B., wife, born June 1844 MO, age 55, married 17 years, mother of 1 child, living, born MO, father born VA, mother AR; Lillie B. Garrett, granddaughter, born Jan. 1887 MO, age 13, father born MO, mother KY. | Census Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PITTMAN, Melissa (LEGRAND) | June 26, 1844 Newton Co., MO |
May 30, 1912 Newtonia, Newton Co., MO |
Research Note: Her death certificate reads that her father was James Legrand, born KY, and her mother Eliza Williams, born TN. She was age 67 years, 11 months and 5 days old when she died. Lillie B. Hawk, Newtonia, MO, was the informant. Burial in Jolly Cemetery, May 31, 1912. Wife of John T. Pittman. | Death Certificate Donna Cooper Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PURCELL, Maggie May | May 1, 1873 | June 27, 1875 | Inscription: "Daughter of W. F. and M. C. Purcell" - Research Note: Photo of tombstone at findagrave.com. Donna's Note: Even though the researcher states that this stone is in Jolly Bethel, please beware that it might not be there and possibly not even in Jolly Bethel. When Ted Roller and I did the photographing of this cemetery, we did not find any Purcell graves or even a small piece of the stone posted for this person. Considering the care we took in cleaning and digging up stones so that every piece of data could be recorded, I doubt this stone was in Bethel Jolly. It might be in a cemetery near Jolly, etc. | findagrave.com Phyllis Long Note Donna Cooper |
| PUTMAN, John Ezekiel | Feb. 6, 1851 Gordon Co., GA |
Oct. 2, 1929 Newton Co., MO |
SSW: Sarah E. - Research Note: The Neosho Times, Oct. 10, 1929 - Mr. Putman was a pioneer settler of this region. He was one of the most progressive farmers of the county and took an active part in the political life of the county. He had lived in the Newtonia neighborhood for fifty-nine years and was well liked and respected by all his neighbors. He was the father of one of the largest families in the county and as his children grew up and scattered over the region, gaining the respect of their neighbors and increasing the number of their friends, the admiration for Mr. and Mrs. Putman spread in proportion. No greater praise can come to anyone than can be said of Mr. Putman and his excellent wife. They raised to be useful and respected citizens, fourteen of the seventeen children born to them. John Ezekiel Putman was born in Gordon county GA, Feb. 6, 1851, and died Oct. 2, 1929. He was the son of Elijah and Mary E. (Mary E. Dodd, a native of Scotland) Putman and the grandson of Ezekiel Putman of North Carolina. In 1868 John Ezekiel Putman left his native state and after spending two years in Alabama came to Missouri in 1871, settling in Newton county. In early manhood he was converted and joined the Presbyterian church. While in Alabama he was married to Sarah E. Grimes. To this union were born seventeen children, four having died in infancy. Thirteen children survive him, five sons and eight daughters. They are: James B., of Mulvane, KS; George W., Pierce City; Lewis C., Newtonia; Richard B., North Platte, NE; Dewey, Denver, CO; Mrs. Alice Bowdoin, Sumnerville, GA; Mrs. Grace Nutting, Baxter Springs; Mrs. Hortense Young, Willard, MO; Mrs. Lillie Paden, Pierce City; Mrs. Carrie Cunningham, Newtonia; Miss Edith at Home and Miss Rachael of Drumwright, OK. He is also survived by thirty-three grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. Funeral services were read by Rev. W. Goodnight. Since the death of Mrs. Putman last winter, Mr. Putman had been failing in health. He was living on his farm home north of Fairview with Miss Edith and Mrs. Cunningham. Mr. Cunningham being engaged in caring for the farm. He had seemed as well as usual upon retiring for the night, Oct. 2, and was in good spirits, having planned a visit to one of his daughter's homes in the near future. When Mr. Cunningham arose in the morning he found Mr. Putman had died during the night. Death was due to heart trouble and had come upon him apparently painlessly and without awakening him. Mr. Putman's passing closes one of the most unusual lives that has been spent in this county. Few men can boast the family which was like his. It is a model to strive for in its mutual affection for each other and in the character and usefulness to God and the country of its members. It is Hard to conceive of any man having lived more successfully and usefully from every point of view than he has. It is such people as Mr. and Mrs. Putman that have made America the greatest of the Christian nations. | Neosho Times Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
| PUTMAN, Sarah Elizabeth (GRIMES) | Aug. 25, 1855 Knoxville, Knox Co., TN |
Jan. 9, 1929 Newtonia, Newton Co., MO |
SSW: John E. - Research Note: Her death certificate reads that she was married, daughter of L. C. Grimes, born MO, and mother's maiden name was Sharp. Hortense Young (daughter) of Willard, MO, was the informant. - Wife of John Ezekiel Putman. Mother of 17 children, 13 living when she died. Daughter of Celia Sharp and Lewis Chrisman Grimes. Celia/Sela Sharp married Lewis C. Grimes on Dec. 5, 1854 in Claiborne Co., TN. Lewis Chrisman Grimes died in 1881 and is buried in Wright Cemetery, Fairview, Newton Co., MO. Celia is buried at Bethel Jolly Cemetery. | Death Certificate TN Marriage Index Phyllis Long Photo Donna Cooper Ted Roller |
